We met this week to discuss Hillbilly Elegy: a memoir of a family and culture in crisis by J.D. Vance. The book made the top of the New York Times Non-Fiction Best Sellers List in August of 2016. According to the Washington Post, by February, 2017, Hillbilly Elegy had sold “half a million copies in hardcover and 280,000 digital and audio editions.” A film version, directed by Ron Howard and starring Glenn Close and Amy Adams, is due to be released in November this year.
Our first responders liked the book and most seemed to find it easy to read, although one of us almost stopped reading because it seemed too sad. The first and most powerful part of our discussion was about poverty. Were the problems Vance described because of the hillbilly culture or because of a culture of poverty? One of us noted that the author’s mother is not the only nurse to have an addiction problem. Another member has worked most of her life in welfare/social-type work and she felt that the author gave one of the best explanations of the behavior she has read. We discussed the importance of mentors and a support system. One of us shared her own sense of loss in not having a support system. Several of our members are grandparents who participate heavily in their grandchildren’s lives.
Nevada is filled with settlers from around the country, the world even, yet I am always amazed by how many connections we find. One member grew up in South-Western Ohio, in a town very similar to Middletown, with a lot of transplants from Kentucky. He said that the author did not emphasize enough how the Kentucky/Southern accent made people stand out. He also felt that the author over-emphasized the problems and dysfunction of the area.
We still weren’t sure if the author explained well enough why people would change from democrats to republicans. One member mentioned that the change had taken place with Reagan. We discussed that the author’s relatives could not identify with the polish and education, even elitism, of the democratic candidates, identifying more with Trump’s rough edges. The discussion got a little tough and I intervened to remind us that we needed to try to stay away from politics and get back to the book.
One of us wanted to talk about question six, which asked what we thought about Vance’s difficulty with neighbors who were on welfare and yet had a cell phone. She was particularly disturbed at how much help from the government people get – free phones and food stamps —while not working. Others brought up that food stamps are intended to help children, although this varies by state. I mentioned the free food distributed at the library on Thursdays, available to anyone. The discussion was heated and emotional. I moved us on because we can all share stories that frustrate us, much like the author does, but the need is great and the intent is to help.
Another member directed us to question seven, that “critics of Hillbilly Elegy accuse Vance of ‘blaming the victim’ rather than providing a sound analysis of the structural issues left unaddressed by government.” She believed that the author was trying to show that government policy cannot solve the problem. People have to want to change.
It was a difficult discussion. One of my coworkers had read the book, liking it at first and then deciding that the author was just patting himself on the back. A couple of people around the table seemed to agree. When I mentioned that the author had moved back to Ohio and started a non-profitto help with the issues he identified in Hillbilly Elegy, one member said she like him better knowing that.
One of us had watched several videos, including a Ted Talk by J.D. Vance. I played a short clip in which Vance had a discussion with country singer Kacey Musgraves. In this video, he shared family pictures and a story about how, after his grandmother died, they found 19 loaded guns all over her house, strategically placed so that she could always reach one easily. We laughed and commented that Vance doesn’t have an accent.
When I left the library after the meeting, the night was dark, drizzly and smoky – an unusual combination that made me think of the fires in Australia over our winter and last summer’s devastating fires in California. Yesterday, the World Health Organization declared the COVID-19 “the first pandemic caused by a coronavirus.” I write this blog as a snapshot of our discussions, to remind us what we read and what we thought, including the atmosphere. We don’t always agree, there may never be answers to our most pressing questions, but we have made connections. Check out the other works discussed—most of them were previous book club selections and are experiences we can all share.
- OTHER WORKS DISCUSSED:
- The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian (2007) by Sherman Alexie
- Fruit of the Drunken Tree (2008) by Ingrid Rojas Contreras
- The Namesake (2004) by Jhumpa Lahiri
- Perfectionists (2018) by Simon Winchester
- The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane (2017) by Lisa See
- There There (2018) by Tommy Orange (July 2020 selection)
- Winter’s Bone (2006) by Daniel Woodrell
- Book review not discussed but recommended:
- Rothman, J. (2017, June 19). The Lives of Poor White People. Retrieved from https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/the-lives-of-poor-white-people
- Discussion questions were taken from litlovers.com: https://www.litlovers.com/reading-guides/non-fiction/10799-hillbilly-elegy-vance?start=3
- Kacey Musgraves And JD Vance: Small Towns, Big Success | The Influencers | TIME https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WTsh8YfcSE
I was so impressed, moved, by Hillbilly Elegy, but when I read your post I recognized that I agreed with most of the small charges against the book. I thought the author was patting himself on the back in a way, but should he have not written the book? How could he write what happened and not say what he did? Like one of the other readers, I was glad to learn he had moved back to Ohio. Also, even though his mother certainly didn’t earn any awards, he wasn’t vindictive or bitter about her. At least not to my memory. My greatest emotional recall about the book is the love of family, recognition of sacrifice, and redeeming of self worth. The latter is so hard. I smile when I remember that he didn’t know that buying and wearing any suit would do for an interview. One’s heritage clings in tiny crannies. Even a single word or gesture can betray you. It’s best to love who you are and love those you love despite who they are. Nice post, Kristine.
RMP also missed the meeting and stopped to talk when she picked up next month’s selection. If I remember correctly, she shared that her family had migrated into Oklahoma and the group was called the Okies. Her mother, the youngest of nine, told her that World War II was the best thing that happened because it forced the young men out to see the world.
CB was sorry she couldn’t make the meeting but said I could share her comment: “I can’t say I enjoyed it, but it is something all thinking people must read. In this well-written autobiography, the author describes his own family legacy of violence, ignorance, and, especially, poverty. How did he break out? Why didn’t everyone else? I am recommending this to everyone I know, and gifting a copy or two to people who need to know about this.”
I enjoyed these updates. I always want to give good books to people I know. I miss the book club meetings here, in my state, and miss reading the comments from your group there.