I am often asked how I choose our book club selections. Do members make recommendations? Do I favor any genres? Members do make recommendations, but we try to find titles for which I can get a lot of copies through the library – enough so that we could perhaps catch the attention of new members to bring new perspectives to our discussions, enough copies in large print and in audio versions for different needs. I try to make sure I choose books by female and male authors equally throughout the year, including at least one non-fiction book. I think mysteries and historical fiction tend to be popular, but we also like to learn and be challenged. Some members don’t finish a book if they don’t like it, others read our selections like homework. 
I chose An American Marriage by Tayari Jones for our February selection because the book came highly recommended, longlisted for the National Book Award, winner of the 2019 NAACP Image Award for Outstanding Literary Work in Fiction, winner of the 2019 Women’s Prize for fiction, and the February 2018 Oprah’s Book Club 2.0 selection. February is also African-American Heritage month and it’s Valentine’s Day week!
Our discussion got off to a bit of a rocky start. We had been discussing movies and the Oscar winners when we seamlessly slid into our book, with mixed reviews. Different. Not interesting. Liked. Since none of our members are black, I shared that one of my coworkers felt that the story captured well the African-American woman’s sense of being subjugated to black men. The subjects of innocent incarceration, prison in general, infidelity, abortion, and women’s rights are huge and we rambled.
So, earlier than usual, we referred to the publisher’s discussion questions to give us direction, starting with the appropriateness of the title. Which marriage? Several of us seemed to think that the story was primarily about Roy. And he was unfaithful during the short marriage, so if Celestial had been incarcerated . . . He didn’t even wait when he wanted to save his marriage. Andre was sweet. We didn’t like Roy or Celestial much. I think we liked Big Roy and Olive. What did the tree Roy attacked represent? Was Roy attacking Celestial indirectly? Why did she go into the house and watch Roy beat up Andre? Why did she have the abortion so quickly? Was the author just proselytizing? Why didn’t they communicate better? Do we communicate any better in our own lives?
One of us had worked in a prison in Utah and felt that it was highly unusual for an innocent person to be in prison. She understood Celestial’s unwillingness to be treated like the majority of women who visited, smuggling in drugs made to look like M&Ms or who knows what. We believed in Roy’s innocence and one of us said she had expected me to bring pears for our snack. If only I had thought to bring pears and M&Ms!
We ended by discussing the writing. We had mixed opinions here, too. Well-written, with interesting metaphors, yet we wondered if the author wasn’t trying too hard. One of us had read reader reviews and said that the book seemed to be rated either a five or a two – they either hated it or loved it. My impression is that if you averaged our responses, we would rate the book a three. One of us ended by reading the following excerpt: “Human emotion is beyond comprehension, smooth and uninterrupted, like an orb made of blown glass.” What does that mean? Our hour was up. But the discussion doesn’t have to stop here. What do you think?
- Other Works discussed:
- Just Mercy (1919) film and book by Bryan Stevenson
library patrons for our first Table Reading. We read out loud, sitting around a table on the stage of our beautiful theater – not as a performance, but as a chance to step outside our comfort zone and do something different and challenging. As a bonus, I found that hearing the play read, imperfectly and yet movingly, helped me appreciate this outwardly nostalgic and simplistic play all the more. For those of us who participated in the reading, our experience and understanding could not be but different than those who did not. During this month, as people at the library noticed the book selection, several stopped to share that they had performed in this play during high school!
We discussed how the play’s stage manager role, minimalistic set and lack of props was groundbreaking for 1938. Our Town won the Pulitzer Prize in 1938 “For the original American play, performed in New York, which shall best represent in marked fashion the educational value and power of the stage, preferably dealing with American life, $1,000.”
more novella than novel and when I announced the selection, most members were glad the book was short.


Nevada and is related to the Drunken Tree used for the title – another shared experience through a book!

member wrote from Alaska that she couldn’t make the meeting but really liked the book and was sorry to miss the discussion! Around the table reviews were favorable. Many read the book quickly and at least one of us skimmed ahead.